MySpace.com: Where lads hang out and lurkers quietly watch


This post is based on an article I wrote that is getting published in our School Portal tomorrow.

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You are having dinner with friends at an Italian restaurant, the type that has paper table cloths. The server is a funny and talkative young guy. You are having a blast the whole night and you keep teasing one of the girls in the table, telling her she should hook up with him, since he is studying film and she is an actress. You end up writing down her phone number and name on the table. She tears off her number but leaves her name. A few days later she gets contacted by the waiter through MySpace. He tells her “I told you I’d find you.”

Scary? Funny? The girl that told me this story didn’t quite know what to make of it when her friend told her about this MySpace episode: she was the one who had written the phone and name on the table.

Last year MySpace was this place for people to make friends and for little known bands to reach new audiences. Today, with over 80.5 million users, if MySpace were a country, it would not be far behind the population size of Russia or Mexico (check back again tomorrow – while this story was being produced, the site gained almost one million users)! As anyone coming from a large city knows, one can expect just about anything to be possible in MySpace.

So what makes MySpace special, then? After all, it doesn’t precisely sport the friendliest user interface. Yet it has quite the following. People continue to meet their Mr. and Miss Right after patient searches through the millions of profiles and comments posted. Many old friends and networking opportunities too continue to stay in touch thanks to MySpace.

In spite of the site’s size, it seems to hold on strong in the hearts and mice of most of its core users. However, some who would rather keep on logging in are seeing their access to MySpace blocked at school, work or home. At the same time, others are voluntarily deleting their accounts pushed away either by potential stalkers or a feel that the site has lost the personal touch it once had. The mammoth sprawl of the site is starting to take a toll.

The downside: addiction, sexual predators and then some…
MySpace has easily turned into one of the most addictive online experiences since World of Warcraft. Some people can only be “found” on MySpace: they can only be contacted through their MySpace account and they only listen to music through MySpace. The site already has a reputation of ruining friendships and relationships, not to mention the loss of jobs, sometimes even before people get to an interview.

The addiction MySpace causes can get more frightening when those addicted are children, as it is increasingly becoming the case. Kids under 14 (the age limit imposed by MySpace) are spending hours a day surfing the site.

If only addiction were the only problem in MySpace. Like the story that opened the post showed, users are exposing themselves more than necessary. And this creates plenty of opportunities for potential predators, as the recent Dateline NBC report “To Catch a Predator” proved.

So, is MySpace the problem? Perhaps they can enhance their policing mechanisms (I don’t know they would want to do much about reducing the time users spend surfing their site, though). However, at the end of the day, no amount of monitoring and technology can instill a larger dose of common sense in users, to make them limit the time they spend logged into it or have them give out a little less personal information on the site that will make them an easier target for predators out there.

tags: web

Bootleg Radiohead recording – Live in Copenhagen 5-6-06

I’ve had the privilege of getting a chance to listen to a very decent bootleg recording of Radiohead, playing live in Copenhagen in the beginning of May. Not only do they still HAVE it (their classics sound as fresh as day one -Planet Telex, Lucky, Let Down and many others). They play a number of precious new tracks that still haven’t seen the light of day on any of their records. As expected, they are continuing to move ahead, setting the pace for the rest to figure out.

La Matematica No Falla: Por que Brasil va a ganar el Mundial del 2006

1. Brasil ganó la copa mundial en 1994, antes que eso, ganaron el mundial en 1970. Sumen 1970 + 1994 = 3964

2. Argentina ganó su última copa mundial en 1986, antes que eso ganaron el mundial en 1978. Sumen 1978 + 1986 = 3964

3. Alemania ganó su última copa mundial en 1990, antes que eso, ganaron el mundial en 1974. Sumen 1974 + 1990 = 3964

4. El mundial 2002 Brasil repitió el campeonato, y es lógico, ya que si sumamos 1962 (donde Brasil fue campeón) + 2002 = 3964, por lo tanto, Brasil debí­a ser el campeón, y así­ fue.

5. Y si se quiere pronosticar el campeón para Alemania 2006. Resten 3964 – 2006 = 1958… Ese año el campeón mundial fue Brasil, así­ que se escuchan pronósticos
para el 2006…..

6. Y LO MAS IMPACTANTE: Los fanáticos VENEZOLANOS tenemos también motivo para alegrarnos, ya que seguramente ganaremos el mundial en el año 3964. Porque 0 + 3964 = 3964.

O sea que ya sólo tenemos que esperar 489 mundiales para sercampeones! Eso equivale a 1958 años. En 1958 Brasil fue campeón del mundo. Así­ que la final va a ser contra los brasileños… ni se imaginan la goleada que les vamos a dar. Ahhhhh Pobres!

tags: FIFA World Cup, funny